How does one succeed in life?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why do so many men on the internet try to compete with women, or try to "humble" and bash them? There's so many videos across my tiktok and YouTube of men claiming how they're wanting to get back at women and put them in thier place.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do I sweat so much? I’m 17 but I feel like I always need to re-apply deodorant and I am always self-conscious that I smell because I feel sweat under my arms.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What misfortune led to an important discovery?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Why do I get bored with porn so quickly? I can watch maybe half a video (5 mins max) and then get bored and do something else. I don't watch porn often, just a teenager. 17.

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?

Do not set goals—set systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Have you ever regretted not hitting on a older women?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

How do Flat Earthers explain time zones?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Do you as a gay male enjoy the feeling of getting a penis in your anus?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why are most people broke?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

What were the career paths of each member of "The Monkees" after the band disbanded? Did any of them have successful music careers?

Does not procrastinate.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How common is it for siblings to fight over their parents' inheritance money? What is the best way to handle this type of situation?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why does TikTok allow porn stars in its platform? Isn't it aimed at teenagers?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

That's it for today.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.